Wednesday, December 09, 2009

You want WHAT for your birthday?

As mentioned earlier, Jim turned 30! A few weeks ago I asked him what he wanted for his 30th birthday and he answered "Oh, just a surprise party." Now he probably wasn't aware that the whole purpose of a surprise party was in deed - to be surprised. However, I took his birthday wish as my command and planned a fun filled weekend to celebrate his birth.

First, 30 hours (get it?) before his birthday, the kids and I went to his office to kidnap him for his first 'surprise'. Of course he suspected a surprise party, because of his birthday wish, but what better way to throw him off the scent than to surprise him with NOT a surprise party.
Instead, we went to a family swim night and had a great time with the kids. Kacy sure is a little water baby!
After working up our appetites in the pool, we went out to eat at a place I knew we would get special, embarrassing treatment to celebrate the birthday boy. Turns out the big Mexican hat is cooler than you think - Bridger loved it!
Saturday (the day before his birthday), we made Jim a special 'surprise' breakfast and let him eat it in bed. He has the '2' and '9' candles decorating his breakfast because A) I forgot to use them last year 2) It was the last breakfast in his 20s and 3) His birthday fell on 'Fast Sunday' so we wouldn't be able to give him breakfast in bed on his actual birthday.
After breakfast, another surprise awaited him when we bundled up and went to Mt. Hood for some family tubing. Jim loves snow, skiing and being outdoors. It was a beautiful, sunny, cold day - perfect for winter fun.
We told Bridger he could go skiing with Daddy when he turns 3, and ever since then B has asked if it is his birthday so he and daddy can go skiing - which Jim is thrilled about. Jim is already planning out the spring ski trips with his new snow buddy.
Finally, the big day arrived and Jim turned the big 3-0! I had another 'surprise' waiting for him - a treasure hunt that involved Beatles Rock Band as his birthday present surprise. I had convinced him that we should not indulge in such a frivolous game, so was really excited to see that I got it for him, and we have all had a great time 'sharing' his gift.

However, I had one final surprise up my sleeve. Remember, how he had asked for a surprise party? Well, our dear friends who live down the street were giving their new baby girl a blessing at church, so I told Jim we had been invited to a family get together with them and convinced Jim I was very torn and distraught that I could not single handedly make his favorite meal on his actual birthday.

We came home from church, intending to grab our contribution to our friend's gathering, when...

SURPRISE!!!
Jim was greeted by 60+ people who were neighbors, work friends, church buddies and running pals. He really was surprised!
We feel truly blessed to have some great friends that helped pull the surprise party off and show up in force to help us celebrate Jim's Birthday.
I am still tickled and patting myself on the back for the fact he was surprised (when he had asked for it) and that everything turned out so well. Rest assured he is not getting a single surprise for Christmas - I think I maxed out my sneakiness and deception for a while.

Happy 30th Birthday Jim! We love you!

2 comments:

Brittany said...

that was so much fun! let's do it again!

Alan C Williams said...

Melanie you really rocked it for Jim! That is awesome!